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Finding Peace on the Lake

I cannot control tomorrow, but I can choose not to give tomorrow the gift of today.
I cannot control tomorrow, but I can choose not to give tomorrow the gift of today.

Where do you find your peace?


It’s not about escaping from life, but about finding a place where you can reconnect with yourself.


I am fortunate that one of those places exists just beyond my back door.


There’s a beautiful lake in my backyard. Over time, it’s become much more than just a view. It’s where I slow down, step into nature, take deeper breaths, and let the noise of daily life fade away.


Sometimes I sit by the water. Other times, I step onto my stand-up paddleboard and move.


SUP has a grounding effect on me. As soon as I leave the shore, my focus changes. I notice the water moving under me, feel the sun’s warmth, hear the birds and the soft splash of my paddle. My body naturally follows the lake’s rhythm.


There is no rushing.


Just movement, breath and awareness.


Peace Does Not Always Mean Stillness


We often picture peace as complete stillness: sitting quietly, meditating, closing our eyes.


Peace can also be found in movement.


For me, SUP and Yoga SUP combine two things that nourish me deeply: nature and mindful movement.


When I practice yoga on my board, the poses feel different. The water encourages me to relax, focus, and adjust. I can’t control every ripple, so I learn to move with them.


Maybe that’s one of the lessons the lake keeps teaching me.


Balance isn’t about keeping everything still. It’s about learning to move with whatever is beneath you.


Life is much the same.


We can’t calm every wave before it gets to us. We can’t control every change, disappointment, or moment of uncertainty. But we can get better at facing those waves without letting them sweep us away.


Nature Brings Me Back to the Present


This weekend, I spent about an hour on the lake.


Nothing special happened, and maybe that’s what made it special.


I paddled. I stretched. I rested and did yoga on my board. I looked across the water toward home. I noticed an Inukshuk standing quietly along the shoreline. And then a dragonfly landed on the front of my paddleboard.


Tiny moments.


But I noticed them.


That’s what happens when we slow down and stay present. We start to notice things that our busy lives usually hide from us.


Nature doesn't ask us what we accomplished today. The lake doesn't care about our to-do list. The dragonfly doesn't know what we are worried about.


For a little while, we are simply part of something larger.


Peace doesn’t take away uncertainty from my life. It helps me stay present with it. When my mind drifts to tomorrow and all the things I can’t know yet, I come back to what’s here today: my breath, my body, the water under me, and the beauty around me.


I can’t control tomorrow, but I can choose not to let it take away today.


Where Do You Find Your Peace?


Your peaceful place doesn't need to be a lake.


Perhaps it is a garden, a forest trail, the ocean, a favourite chair beside a sunny window, a yoga mat, a morning walk, music, prayer, meditation, painting, or time spent with someone you love.


Peace is very personal.


What matters is knowing what restores you and allowing yourself to go there.


Not only when life becomes overwhelming.


Regularly.


Intentionally.


Self-care isn’t always about adding more to our day. Sometimes, it’s about making enough space to hear ourselves again.

 
 
 

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Guest
3 days ago

I can relate on this subject and the writer made it clear “What matters is knowing what restores you and allowing yourself to go there.” That’s the wonderful takeaway for me. Thank you for the gentle nudge reminderbcgame

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bjaucoin
2 days ago
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Thank you so much. I’m glad that message resonated with you. Sometimes we just need that gentle reminder to notice what restores us and give ourselves permission to return to it. 💚

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Gravityluv
Aug 10
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I can relate on this subject and the writer made it clear “What matters is knowing what restores you and allowing yourself to go there.” That’s the wonderful takeaway for me. Thank you for the gentle nudge reminder

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bjaucoin
Aug 10
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You are most welcome. I hope you treat yourself to self-care by going to your peaceful place often. 💚

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