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Build strength, support longevity, and embrace movement at every age.


I recently read an article about building muscle after menopause, and it confirmed what I have believed and practiced for years: strength training is essential for healthy aging.


Whenever I go to the YMCA, I feel inspired by women in their 70s and 80s who make fitness a regular part of their lives. Seeing them lift weights, join activities, and connect with others shows me that age doesn't limit strength and vitality.


What's especially wonderful is how many ways we have to stay active in our community.


Why Strength Matters After Menopause


As women get older, especially after menopause, lower estrogen levels and aging can lead to muscle loss.


Strong muscles support balance, mobility, bone health, metabolism, and independence. It lets us keep doing what we love, like travelling, gardening, playing with grandchildren, or just enjoying an active life.


I notice the same dedication in my fellow yogis. Some go to the Lunenburg County Lifestyle Centre (LCLC), others prefer the YMCA, and some go to 902. Many combine yoga with walking, weights, and other activities.


We may use different facilities and have different approaches, but we all share a commitment to wellness.


Strength Training Takes Many Forms


Strength training doesn't have to mean lifting heavy weights at the gym. Resistance bands, bodyweight exercises, squats, planks, and strength-building yoga poses can all help maintain muscle.


In my yoga classes, I include planks, reverse planks, Warrior poses, and balance postures. Along with walking and weight lifting, these activities help my physical and emotional well-being.


The World Health Organization suggests doing muscle-strengthening activities at least twice a week. The most important things are being consistent, challenging our muscles in the right way, and building strength over time.


Living Stronger, Living Fully


Living with stage IV breast cancer has made me appreciate movement and what my body can still do even more.


With support from my health-care team, I continue to lift weights, practise and teach yoga, walk, and live an active lifestyle.


For me, strength training isn't about how I look. It's about keeping my ability to travel, spend time with family, stay independent, and live life to the fullest.


Of course, everyone's health situation is different, so exercise should match our abilities and follow any medical advice we need.


I often say, "Self-care is the new Health Care." Strength training is one important way we can take care of ourselves.


Whether you're a young mother regaining strength, a woman going through menopause, or someone in your 80s staying independent, movement can support your health and well-being.


Beyond physical strength, our gyms, recreation centers, and yoga communities also offer connection, encouragement, and a sense of belonging.


Healthy aging isn't just about adding years to our lives. It's about living those years with strength, purpose, connection, and joy.


Take one step forward. Every step counts.


Betty Jean Aucoin

Author of RISE: Living Life Over Cancer

Yoga Instructor | Speaker | Cancer Thriver


Further Reading


How to Build Muscle After 50 During Menopause:


World Health Organization: Physical Activity: https://www.who.int/initiatives/behealthy/physical-activity/

 
 
 
Beautiful Maple Tree on Hebb's Farm
Beautiful Maple Tree on Hebb's Farm

Autumn reminds us that change is a natural part of life. Here in Nova Scotia, the leaves are turning brilliant shades of red, orange, and gold. The winds are shifting, the days are growing shorter, and nature is preparing for a quieter season.


This morning, our yoga practice focused on embracing these changes while staying grounded.


In the Ayurvedic tradition, autumn is associated with Vata season, characterized by the elements of air and space. Vata is described as light, cool, dry, and mobile. Ayurvedic teachings encourage us to cultivate the opposite qualities during this season: warmth, stability, nourishment, and stillness.


As I shared with my yogis today, sometimes our lives mirror the changing seasons. Our minds get busy, our schedules fill up, and life's challenges can leave us feeling unsettled.


Yet nature offers us a beautiful lesson.


Consider the trees around us. As their leaves fall and the winds blow, they remain rooted.


We, too, can learn to stay grounded, even as life around us changes.


Finding Stability Through Movement


Bowing Warrior to support balance and grounding.
Bowing Warrior to support balance and grounding.

This morning's practice invited us to slow down, deepen our breathing, and reconnect with the earth beneath our feet.


Through grounding postures such as Mountain, Bowing Warrior, and Tree Pose, we explored strength, balance, and the importance of remaining present.


In Tree Pose, we were reminded that balance doesn't mean remaining perfectly still. Sometimes we sway, adjust, and begin again.


Just as trees bend with the wind, we can learn to move with life's challenges without losing our sense of self.


We cannot always control the winds of change, but we can nurture the roots that keep us steady.


Small Moments of Movement Matter


Today, I encouraged my yogis to revisit our practice through the weekly recording, but with a gentle reminder: You don't need to complete the entire hour to benefit from yoga.


Sometimes, even as a yoga instructor, I find an hour-long practice daunting. Life gets busy, and other things always call for our attention.


This past weekend, while Ray and I were enjoying precious time with our grandson, I took advantage of his naps to return to my mat.


One day, I practised for 20 minutes; another day, for 30.


And you know what? It felt wonderful!


Those moments allowed me to move my body, connect with my breath, quiet my mind, and nourish myself.


They also reminded me that self-care doesn't have to be complicated or time-consuming.


We don't need to wait until we have an entire hour available.


Whether it's 10, 20, or 30 minutes, I encourage you to make time for yourself. Roll out your mat, revisit part of a practice, and enjoy moving and breathing.


It's not about how long we practise. It's about making the time to care for ourselves, one mindful moment at a time.


Bringing Grounding Into Everyday Life


Grounding ourselves doesn't need to be complicated. Consider these gentle ways to nourish yourself during this season of change:


* Begin your day with a few slow, mindful breaths.

* Try out the practice shared below.

* Enjoy warm, wholesome, nourishing foods.

* Move your body regularly, even if only for a few minutes.

* Spend time outdoors and appreciate nature's beauty.

* Connect with people who bring love, stability, and joy into your life.

* Permit yourself to slow down.



Sometimes, the simplest practices make the greatest difference.


A Gentle Practice for You


Take a few moments today to experience a little of what we shared on our mats.


Find a comfortable seated or standing position. Feel the ground supporting you.


If comfortable, close your eyes and take five slow, gentle breaths.


Imagine yourself as a beautiful autumn tree.


Your branches may sway in the wind. Your leaves may change and fall. The seasons of your life may bring uncertainty, challenges, and new beginnings.


Yet beneath it all, your roots remain.


Your breath grounds you.


Your values strengthen you.


Your connections nourish you.


And your ability to return to the present moment reminds you that you can find peace, even in times of change.


May I remain grounded in who I am, even as the world around me changes.


Embracing the Season We Are In


Living with uncertainty has taught me that life will always bring seasons of change.


Some are filled with joy and new beginnings. Others challenge our strength, resilience, and hope.


What matters is how we choose to live within each season.


Today, I am reminded that we don't have to move at the pace of the world around us.


We can pause, breathe, appreciate what is before us, and remain rooted in what truly matters.

To my wonderful yogis in person and online, thank you for sharing your energy, friendship, and presence on the mat this morning.


To everyone reading, wherever you are in life's changing seasons, may you find moments of peace, strength, and gratitude.


Stay rooted. Breathe deeply. Embrace the season you are in.



Namaste,

Betty Jean ❤️


Living Life Over Cancer | Self-care is the new Health Care.

 
 
 
National Breast Cancer Foundation Inc. 2026
National Breast Cancer Foundation Inc. 2026

Today, October 13, is the one day set aside to honour those of us living with Stage IV metastatic breast cancer (MBC).


For us, breast cancer awareness is not limited to a single day or month. It is our reality every day of the year.


The Reality of Stage IV


Breast cancer found at Stages I, II, or III is often treated with the hope of a cure. Still, even after treatment, cancer can come back, sometimes years later.


October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Pink ribbons remind us how important early detection, education, research, and hope are.


Stage IV means the cancer has spread to other parts of the body. Treatments are improving and helping people live longer, but there is still no cure for metastatic breast cancer.


In Canada, about 32,400 women are expected to be diagnosed with breast cancer in 2026, and around 5,400 will die from it. These numbers represent real people, families, dreams, and lives that are changed forever.


I know this reality personally. Diagnosed in 2019, I completed surgery, chemotherapy, radiation, and hormonal treatment. In 2023, my cancer returned as Stage IV.


Today, I am grateful that my treatment continues to keep my cancer stable. I travel, teach yoga, write, enjoy my family, and embrace the joy of being a grandmother. Yet, like everyone living with metastatic breast cancer, I face the uncertainty of progression and what tomorrow may bring.


A Worldwide Sisterhood


Through many Facebook groups for Stage IV breast cancer, I have connected with communities of tens of thousands of women around the world.


We come from different countries and cultures and have different treatments, but we all understand what it means to live with an incurable disease.


We celebrate stable scans, support each other through treatment changes, share our fears, and offer hope. Sadly, we also mourn the loss of women whose lives end too soon.


These women are not just numbers. They are mothers, grandmothers, daughters, sisters, partners, and friends who wish for more time.


We are not only fighting to survive. We are working to truly live.


Awareness Must Lead to Action


We need education so everyone knows that breast cancer can come back, even years after treatment.


We need ongoing research, fair access to new treatments, compassionate care, and stronger advocacy for everyone living with metastatic disease.


We are thankful for treatments that help us live longer, but we must keep working toward a cure.


In Loving Memory of Two Angels ❤️


Today, I dedicate this blog to two wonderful women, Belinda Gramonte and Tanya Baker D'Arcy, who lost their lives to Stage IV metastatic breast cancer.


Their courage, friendship, and memories stay with me. Their loss reminds me why advocacy matters and why every extra day counts.


Fly high, my angels. You are loved, remembered, and will never be forgotten.


Tanya Baker-D'Arcy
Tanya Baker-D'Arcy
Belinda Gramonte
Belinda Gramonte

Until There Is a Cure


Living with Stage IV cancer means learning to live with uncertainty while still embracing life.


Through my journey and my book, RISE: Living Life Over Cancer, I share hope, resilience, self-care, and why it matters to live fully, even when life turns out differently than we expected.


To my worldwide metastatic breast cancer community, I see you, I hear you, and I stand with you.


We need more than just one day of awareness. We need a future where Stage IV breast cancer is no longer incurable.


Until that day comes, we will keep rising together.


With faith, love, and hope,


Betty Jean Aucoin

Author of RISE: Living Life Over Cancer


How will you rise from here?

 
 
 
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